F.A.Q.

Q. In a formal session, is there any sex involved?

A. Absolutely NOT.  A BDSM Session may be considered sensual in many ways, but not sexual. If you are into BDSM, or fantasize about BDSM, a session will be psychologically and emotionally rewarding to you in ways that words cannot explain. If you are looking for sex, then I suggest the you call a prostitute...

Q. What can I expect in a session?

A. An experience that you will not soon forget. Everyone is different, as are my sessions. We will take some time prior to going into "scene" to discuss your interests, fantasies and limits, as well as any physical limitations or problems that I should know about. We then establish "safe words" to insure your confidence and safety.  Knowing your interests and limits, I can then develop a session that is specifically formulated for you WITHOUT you having to say what you want. I stimulate your mind by not letting you know what is coming next!!!

Q. Mistress Cyan, what, if I may ask, are your interests and limits?

A. My list of interests would be much too long to go into here, however, I would say that bondage, spanking, flogging, sissy training, CBT and using my single-tail would be at the top of that list. As far as MY limits, I will not participate in any activity that involves minors or animals, no "brown showers", no catheters, and of course, NO SEX...
 

Q. I have heard the phrase "Long Term" and "Personal Slaves". What do those mean?

A. The phrases "Long Term" and "Personal Slaves" are the terms used to describe those submissives who are more into the BDSM Lifestyle, and desire a Domme/sub relationship that goes beyond the typical session-to-session relationship. It enables the Domme and sub to mutually explore and expand the submissive's limits by getting to know each other better, and build an even higher level of trust  and confidence in each other.

Q; I am coming in from out-of-town and would like to live out my fantasy for an extended amount of time. Is that possible?

A. Absolutely. Extended time and overnight sessions are available for those who  prefer to escape the reality of their day-to-day routine. It is not unusual for me to have a submissive who is in Los Angeles for business spend a night in the Dungeon rather than in a hotel. Contact me for more information regarding extended time and overnight sessions.

Q. Do you ever do outcall, or travel outside of Los Angeles to do sessions?

A. Occasionally yes, but each situation is evaluated on a client-to-client basis and everything is taken into consideration. I do, however, require the submissive to cover all of my expenses.  

Q. I have never done this before Mistress, but have fantasized about it for years. I have been thinking about it a lot and would like to schedule a session. Do you see beginners?

A. Yes, I schedule sessions with beginners and I work very well with beginners, too. I am sympathetic to the needs of the novice submissive and slowly train them to accept their submissiveness, and expand the horizons of that submissiveness. I treat your submissiveness as the fragile gift that it is. My slaves are submissive to me because they want to be, not because they have to be...

Q. Mistress, have you ever been submissive? 

A. Yes, I was a submissive for over four years before I ever Dommed anyone. I strongly believe that in order to be a good Dominatrix, you must know how to be a good submissive. When I am dominating a submissive, I know what they are feeling. Everything I use is something that has been used on me and have experienced the feeling that they are experiencing. Personally, I could never understand why a submissive would want to see a Domme who has never been a submissive, and who has no experience in knowing what they are inflicting upon you feels like.  

Q. How do I go about scheduling a session or becoming one of your personal slaves?

A. You may contact me by email, telephone or voicemail. . That information is available in the "Contact Me" section of this web site. When you contact me, we will determine if and when I will see you for a session. If you are interested in being a personal slave, we will briefly discuss that and schedule a time that is convenient to both of us for you to come in for an interview.