A b o u t   M e I've been in the BDSM Lifestyle for over 13 years, but fantasized about it My entire life. I have always, as far back as I can remember, had an interest in bondage and discipline. As I began to realize that there were others like Me in the world, I embraced the fact that My fantasies could be My realities, and pursued the lifestyle that I had once dreamed about Dominant in every other aspect of My life, BDSM gave Me the opportunity to explore the submissive side of Myself that I never expressed. Having excelled in sports and being employed as a Director of Operations for a $3.3 Billion Corporation, submissiveness in "the scene" was a welcomed change. I thought I had found My niche in this Lifestyle as a submissive until one fateful day when preparing to attend a private play party... After four years of being submissive, My Master suggested that we "switch" for the evening, stating that He had "bottomed" before and missed the "sub space". I reluctantly agreed, afraid that I would not feel comfortable in the Dominant role. That night changed the rest of My life... I LOVED the "top space" and discovered the Dominant side  that I didn't think I had, and since that fateful night, things have never been the same !!

After playing for a number of years in the private scene, I did My first "Pro" session in 1994. It was then that I knew what I wanted to do with My life. While I had all the "power" and "control"  that I could ever ask for in My job as a Director of Operations, it was not reaching My true essence as a Dominant. Shortly thereafter, I decided to leave that job and  pursue My dream as a Professional Dominatrix.

Over the years, My love and enthusiasm for this Lifestyle continues to grow. It is a part of My life that will always exist and I cannot imagine going without it. For Me, it is a 24/7 commitment to Myself to do what I love. For Me, success is not measured in dollars and cents... if one finds happiness and fulfillment in every day of their life, that is, in My opinion, true success. That is where I am in My life...

I believe that My experience as a submissive has made Me a better Domme than I could have been without those experiences. I know what the floggers feel like, I know what the whips feel like, I know the difference between a good warm-up and a bad warm-up, I have experienced good scenes and bad scenes, and I know what "sub space" feels like. As a result, I know how to take a submissive where they need to go.

I have My own 1200 square foot Dungeon and stable of Personal Slaves. I live the life others fantasize about... the life I once fantasized about, the fantasy that is now, and always will be, My reality...